WELCOME TO ONE SHOE  SA|Africa

One Shoe SA|Africa | Empowering Lives | One Step at a Time. 

ONE SHOE SA | AFRICA

WHO WE ARE

One Shoe SA | Africa is a South African-based Non-Profit Organisation advocating for the dignity, inclusion, empowerment and well-being of persons with disabilities and vulnerable individuals across Southern Africa and beyond.

Founded through compassion, lived experiences and a commitment to creating meaningful change, One Shoe SA | Africa believes that every step matters. Sometimes, a single shoe, a mobility aid, a supportive hand or a compassionate conversation can restore hope, dignity and the opportunity to participate fully in society.

What began with a commitment to provide single shoes to amputees has grown into a broader movement supporting people living with disabilities, spinal cord injuries, and individuals affected by trauma, violence, life-changing injuries and social exclusion.

We recognise that disability and hardship extend beyond physical challenges. Many individuals also carry emotional, psychological and social wounds that are often unseen and misunderstood.

Our work is rooted in the belief that every person deserves to be treated with respect, regardless of their disability, circumstances, physical appearance or personal experiences.

OUR MISSION

We are committed to empowering individuals with disabilities and vulnerable communities through practical support, advocacy, awareness, inclusion and access to essential resources.

Our programmes focus on:

- Providing single shoes to amputees who cannot afford or access suitable footwear.

- Supporting access to wheelchairs, mobility aids and other assistive devices.

- Promoting disability awareness, accessibility, equal opportunities and community inclusion.

- Supporting individuals living with spinal cord injuries (SCI) and other life-changing conditions.

- Advocating for the dignity and well-being of rape survivors and individuals affected by gender-based violence (GBV).

- Raising awareness and supporting the inclusion of burn survivors and people living with visible or invisible injuries.

- Promoting compassionate support for individuals who have survived suicide attempts and those experiencing emotional or psychological distress.

- Addressing the social, emotional and relationship challenges that may follow disability, trauma and life-changing experiences.

- Encouraging access to appropriate healthcare, rehabilitation, counselling and community support.

We believe that empowerment is not simply about providing resources. It is about creating opportunities, restoring confidence, strengthening independence and ensuring that every individual has a voice.

OUR VISION

We envision a world where every person, regardless of physical ability, disability, injury, trauma or personal circumstances, has equitable access to the resources and opportunities needed to live with dignity and independence.

A world where communities celebrate diversity, eliminate discrimination, embrace inclusion and recognise the value of every human life.

We strive for a future where disability is not a barrier to education, employment, relationships, participation or personal fulfilment, and where survivors of trauma are supported with compassion rather than judgement.

OUR COMMITMENT TO SURVIVORS AND VULNERABLE INDIVIDUALS

One Shoe SA | Africa recognises that some of life's most difficult experiences can leave lasting physical, emotional and psychological effects.

We stand in solidarity with:

Rape survivors and individuals affected by GBV: We advocate for dignity, safety, respect, access to support and freedom from victim-blaming. Survivors deserve to be believed, protected and supported in making their own decisions about healing and recovery.

Burn survivors: We recognise the physical, emotional and social challenges that may accompany burn injuries, including recovery, rehabilitation, changes in appearance, confidence and social acceptance. We promote inclusion and remind survivors that scars do not diminish their worth.

Individuals who have survived suicide attempts: We believe every life matters and that people experiencing emotional distress deserve compassion, professional support and opportunities for recovery. We promote understanding, reduce stigma and encourage access to appropriate mental health care.

People living with spinal cord injuries (SCI): We advocate for accessibility, rehabilitation, mobility, independence, inclusion and the right to live meaningful lives. We recognise that SCI can affect mobility, sensation, personal care, relationships, emotional well-being and everyday participation, while affirming that an injury does not define a person's identity or future.

Our approach is guided by dignity, respect, confidentiality, inclusion and the understanding that every person's journey is unique.

INTIMACY, RELATIONSHIPS AND EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING

An Awareness and Support Advisory

Intimacy is an important part of human connection. It involves more than sexual activity. It includes emotional closeness, trust, affection, companionship, communication, mutual respect and feeling safe enough to be oneself with another person.

One Shoe SA | Africa recognises that rape, GBV, burn injuries, suicide attempts and spinal cord injuries can affect how individuals experience intimacy, relationships, confidence and connection.

These experiences may change how a person feels about their body, how they trust others, how they communicate their needs and how they approach romantic or intimate relationships.

However, trauma, disability or injury does not take away a person's right to love, be loved, experience intimacy or build fulfilling relationships.

Every individual deserves relationships that are safe, respectful, supportive and freely chosen.

1. Intimacy after rape and gender-based violence

Sexual violence and GBV can deeply affect a person's sense of safety, trust, control and emotional connection.

Some survivors may experience difficulty with physical affection, emotional closeness, vulnerability or trusting a partner. Others may feel disconnected from their bodies, struggle to communicate boundaries or worry that their experiences will affect future relationships.

There is no single way to respond to trauma, and survivors should never be pressured to recover according to someone else's expectations.

Healthy intimacy after sexual violence must be built around:

- Consent that is freely given and can be withdrawn at any time.

- Respect for personal boundaries without questioning or pressure.

- Honest communication about comfort, fears and emotional needs.

- Patience with the survivor's individual healing process.

- Understanding that affection does not create an obligation for sexual activity.

- Access to trauma-informed counselling or professional support when desired.

A survivor is never responsible for another person's violence. Their past does not make them less worthy of love, respect or a healthy relationship.

2. Intimacy after burn injuries

Burn injuries may affect physical comfort, sensation, mobility, body image and confidence. Some survivors may feel anxious about being seen, touched or judged because of scars or changes in appearance.

Partners and loved ones can help by offering reassurance without making assumptions, listening without judgement and recognising that confidence develops differently for each person.

Intimacy can include emotional connection, companionship, affection and mutually comfortable forms of closeness.

Where scars, sensitivity, pain or physical limitations affect comfort, healthcare professionals can provide guidance on safe ways to maintain affection and intimacy.

A person's scars are part of their story, not a measure of their worth or ability to be loved.

3. Intimacy after surviving a suicide attempt

A suicide attempt or serious mental health crisis can affect self-esteem, emotional connection, trust and relationships.

Some individuals may fear being judged, misunderstood or treated as though their entire identity is defined by what happened.

Supportive relationships should recognise the person beyond their crisis. Partners and loved ones can help by listening compassionately, respecting privacy, encouraging appropriate professional support and avoiding shame or blame.

Intimacy should never be used as a measure of recovery or as proof that someone is doing better.

Emotional healing is personal, and individuals deserve time, understanding and access to appropriate mental health care.

4. Intimacy and relationships after spinal cord injury (SCI)

A spinal cord injury can bring significant changes to mobility, sensation, independence, body function and relationships.

Depending on the level and completeness of the injury, a person may experience changes in sexual sensation, arousal, sexual function, bladder and bowel management, muscle control, positioning or other physical responses.

These changes vary considerably between individuals.

SCI does not mean the end of intimacy, love, romantic relationships or a fulfilling intimate life.

People living with SCI can experience emotional closeness, affection, romantic connection and satisfying relationships. Intimacy may require communication, adaptation, patience and learning what works comfortably and safely for each individual.

Important considerations include:

Understanding physical changes: SCI may affect sensation and sexual function differently depending on the injury. A qualified rehabilitation or sexual-health professional can explain individual changes and answer personal questions.

Emotional confidence: Adjusting to a changed body can affect self-esteem and confidence. Partners should avoid defining the person by their wheelchair, injury or physical limitations.

Communication between partners: Open conversations about comfort, boundaries, preferences, concerns and emotional needs can strengthen trust and connection.

Physical comfort and safety: Some people may need guidance regarding positioning, skin protection, sensation changes, muscle spasms, pain, bladder or bowel management and other injury-related considerations. A rehabilitation professional can provide individualised advice.

Sexual health and fertility: SCI does not automatically eliminate the possibility of sexual relationships, fertility or parenthood. Individual circumstances vary, and healthcare professionals can provide guidance on sexual function, contraception, fertility and pregnancy-related questions.

Autonomy and consent: A person living with SCI has the same right to make decisions about relationships and intimacy as anyone else. Disability must never be used as a reason to deny autonomy or assume that a person cannot make their own choices.

Intimacy after SCI is not necessarily about returning to life exactly as it was before the injury. It is about discovering meaningful ways to experience connection, affection, trust and fulfilment in the present.

5. Intimacy after trauma, disability and life-changing experiences

Whether an individual has experienced rape, GBV, burns, a suicide attempt or SCI, the foundations of healthy intimacy remain the same.

Consent: Every person has the right to decide what they are comfortable with. Consent must be freely given and can be withdrawn at any time.

Trust: Healthy relationships develop through honesty, reliability, respect and emotional safety.

Communication: Partners should be able to discuss needs, concerns, boundaries and expectations without fear of judgement.

Patience: Healing, adjustment and rebuilding confidence take time. No one should be rushed into emotional or physical intimacy.

Respect: A person's disability, scars, trauma or past experiences must never be used to control, shame, manipulate or exploit them.

Emotional connection: Intimacy can involve companionship, meaningful conversations, affection, shared experiences and feeling accepted.

Professional guidance: Counsellors, psychologists, rehabilitation professionals and sexual-health practitioners can help individuals and couples navigate emotional, physical and relationship-related concerns.

Self-worth: Every individual deserves love, dignity, respect and meaningful connection, regardless of disability, injury, trauma or personal history.

For some people, intimacy may involve a romantic partner. For others, it may mean rebuilding trust in friendships, family relationships or their connection with themselves. There is no deadline for healing, no obligation to enter a relationship and no single definition of a fulfilling intimate life.

OUR MESSAGE OF ENCOURAGEMENT

To every survivor, every person living with a disability and every individual navigating a life-changing experience:

You are more than what happened to you. You are more than your scars, your wheelchair, your diagnosis, your past or the challenges you face.

Your life still holds meaning. Your dreams still matter. Your voice deserves to be heard. You deserve safety, dignity, inclusion, companionship and the freedom to build a future that reflects who you are. You are worthy of love without having to prove your worth. You are worthy of respect without having to explain your circumstances. And you deserve to live in a world where your experiences are met with compassion, not judgement.

One Shoe SA | Africa believes that empowerment includes the whole person: physical, emotional, social and relational well-being.

Our commitment is to walk alongside individuals and communities, reminding them that even when life's journey changes direction, hope, dignity and meaningful connection remain possible.

JOIN US IN TRANSFORMING LIVES

We invite individuals, organisations, businesses, healthcare professionals, community leaders, donors and volunteers to partner with One Shoe SA | Africa.

Together, we can:

- Provide essential footwear and mobility support.

- Promote disability inclusion and accessibility.

- Strengthen survivor awareness and support initiatives.

- Encourage access to rehabilitation and professional care.

- Challenge stigma, discrimination and social exclusion.

- Create communities where every person is valued and included.

Every contribution matters. Every partnership creates an opportunity. Every act of compassion can make a difference.

One Shoe SA | Africa is more than a shoe. It is a movement for dignity, inclusion, empowerment and hope.

Let us continue transforming lives, restoring dignity and building a more inclusive future, one step at a time.

ONE SHOE SA | AFRICA

Empowering Lives One Step at a Time

Every Path has its Purpose.

 One Shoe SA|Africa

Registered Entity - Combating Disabilities


NPC Reg No: 2018/328804/08 

NPO Reg No: 217-454 

PBO Reg No: 930073113

 Organisation Overview

Meet the Founders’ and their Story


One Shoe SA|Africa was born from pain—but built on purpose. One Shoe SA|Africa was Founded by Allyson Ogston, an amputee who lost her leg in a car accident over 24 years ago, and Co-founded by Kenneth Mulaudzi, a T12/L1 complete paraplegic who has been using a wheelchair for over 16 years following a life-altering hijacking incident. 

What began as a simple act of kindness—a generous donation of out-of-season sample shoes—has since grown into a powerful movement that has transformed over 20 000+ lives across Southern Africa. As the only non-profit organisation of its kind, fully self-funded without external financial backing, we’ve pushed forward with passion, determination, and the unwavering support of our beneficiaries. From our humble base in Boksburg, Gauteng, South Africa, we are now proudly taking our first steps into West Africa, starting with a 40-shoe trial that marks the beginning of a new chapter in our mission to restore dignity, one step at a time.

Born from deeply personal journeys of pain, survival, rejection, humiliated and unwavering purpose, with a single vision: to ensure that no one is held back by the lack of proper mobility aids.  One Shoe SA is not just an initiative; it is a heartfelt movement. Allyson walks with the aid of a prosthetic leg. Kenneth, navigating the world from his wheelchair, has transformed his adversity into action.

Together, we carry the scars of trauma, but we also carry the strength of lived experience. These experiences fuel our mission: to restore dignity, ignite hope, and create lasting change for people living with disabilities across Africa.

Our wounds became our why. And now, we rise, not only for ourselves, but for those whose voices are still unheard, and whose steps still need support.

Join us in making a difference. Walk with us. Support the mission. Be the change.

Meet The Quartet

The Heart and Soul Behind One Shoe SA|Africa

At the core of One Shoe SA|Africa stands The Trio—three extraordinary individuals united by compassion, resilience, and a shared mission to restore dignity, one shoe at a time. Their story is not just one of leadership, but of lived experience, relentless hope, and a deep commitment to never leave anyone behind.

Allyson Ogston

The Advocate. The Bridge-Builder. The Silent Force.

Allyson brings strength, warmth, and a servant’s heart to the One Shoe SA|Africa mission. Her quiet but fierce determination, hands-on involvement, and passion for reaching the most vulnerable make her an irreplaceable part of The Trio. Allyson is a connector—building relationships, mobilizing resources, and making sure that every step taken reaches further and touches more lives.

Kenneth Mulaudzi

The Survivor. The Visionary. The Fighter.

Kenneth’s life changed forever when he survived a brutal hijacking that left him paralyzed, carrying seven bullets in his body for over 15 years. His personal journey through pain, loss, and abandonment became the very foundation of One Shoe SA. Refusing to surrender to tragedy, Kenneth transformed his suffering into a mission to uplift others facing disability and exclusion. His strength, humility, and leadership continue to inspire communities across Southern Africa and beyond.

Julia Mulaudzi

The Caregiver. The Backbone. The Compassionate Heart.

Julia walks this journey not as a distant supporter, but as a partner deeply connected to the realities of disability. As Kenneth’s wife, she has witnessed and lived through the everyday battles of physical, emotional, and social exclusion. Julia’s unwavering dedication and tireless service have become the operational heartbeat of One Shoe SA|Africa, ensuring that no one is forgotten, and no effort is too small in the fight to restore dignity.

Together, They Are More Than a Team—They Are A Family on a Mission.

When you support One Shoe SA, you are walking with Kenneth, Julia, and Allyson. You are standing with a family that has turned tragedy into triumph and heartbreak into hope.

🌍 About One Shoe SA|Africa 

Empowering Lives | One Shoe at a Time

🥾 Imagine Life with Only One Shoe

  • Now, imagine that one shoe is also your only means of mobility.
    For millions of people with disabilities across Africa, this is not imagination—it’s their daily reality.

Without proper mobility aids or even a single shoe that fits, people are left behind, struggling to access:

  • 📚 Education

  • 💼 Employment

  • 🏠 Basic independence

One Shoe SA|Africa is on a mission to change that.

🚶 Who We Are

  • We are grassroots, non-profit organization driven by compassion, not by funding.
    We self-fund much of our work because when you believe in a cause this deeply, you don’t wait—you act.
    But we can’t do this alone. We need you.

🌍 Where We Work

We operate across Africa:

  • Zimbabwe

  • Zambia

  • Tanzania

  • Malawi

  • Mozambique

  • Nigeria

  • Eswatini

  • Lesotho

  • Senegal 

We bring mobility aids, single shoes, and support to communities where help is often out of reach.

We Provide:

  • Mobility aid

  • Single shoes for amputees

  • Advocacy and education

  • Community support

  • Powerful storytelling to challenge stigma

  • We are not just providing shoes—we are restoring dignity, independence, and hope.

🤝 Why We Need You

  • There are still thousands waiting.
    Your support can change their story.

You can:

  • Donate: Every contribution helps us reach another person.

  • Partner: Work with us to expand our impact.

  • Share: Help spread the word and shift mindsets.

Because no one should have to walk through life with only one shoe.

🎤 Our Commitment

At One Shoe SA|Africa 

  • We walk with the forgotten.

  • We amplify the voices of those often unheard.

  • We take real steps toward a more inclusive Africa.

Every Step Matters. Every Shoe Tells a Story.

  • For millions of people with disabilities across Africa, simply walking, moving, or standing with dignity is a daily struggle. Many go without mobility aids, proper shoes, or even basic acceptance.

  • At One Shoe SA|Africa, we believe no one should walk this journey alone.
    Every shoe we give is more than footwear—it’s hope, dignity, and a step toward a better tomorrow.

  • Every mobility aid is freedom, independence, and a chance to live fully.

  • We take each step with them.

  • We walk beside them.

  • We listen, we see, we care.

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Our Mission

At One Shoe SA|Africa, we believe mobility is more than just being able to move—it’s freedom, dignity, and the chance to live fully.

  • Our mission is simple:
    👉 To help people with disabilities walk, move, and live with confidence.

  • We provide:

  • Shoes that fit.

  • Mobility aids that restore independence.

  • Support that brings hope.

We are here to close the gap for those who are often forgotten—ensuring that people with limb differences and mobility challenges get the care, equipment, and respect they deserve.

Through partnerships, community work, and awareness, we are changing lives and challenging the way Africa sees disability.

At One Shoe SA|Africa, we’re not just giving shoes.
We’re building a future where no one is left behind, and every step counts.

 

 

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ONE SHOE SA

"One Step, One Shoe at a Time."

ONE SHOE - SA TEAM MEMBERS

We are dedicated to creating a space that fosters curiosity, celebrates diversity and encourages understanding. We inspire motion by breaking down barriers, building bridges, and moving society forward together.

Organizational Capacity:

Our team comprises professionals with over 30 years combined of experience in disability advocacy and project management, having successfully implemented similar initiatives in the region.

KENNETH MULAUDZI

Resilient in Adversity | Compassionate in All

Kenneth Mulaudzi is an author, entrepreneur, disability advocate, philanthropist, motivational speaker, and social innovator whose life embodies resilience, faith, purpose, and an unwavering commitment to serving humanity.

On 16 October 2008, Kenneth survived a violent hijacking during which he was shot 28 times. Several bullets passed through vital organs, including his lungs, while one struck his spinal cord at the T12/L1 level, resulting in permanent paralysis and life as a wheelchair user. Some bullets remained lodged in his body for years and have been removed gradually through subsequent surgeries as medical conditions permitted. Although the incident changed the course of his life forever, it did not diminish his spirit, determination, or vision for the future.

The years that followed were marked by immense challenges, including discrimination, social exclusion, community rejection, family loss, and emotional hardship. Yet through perseverance, faith, and an unwavering belief in purpose, Kenneth transformed adversity into a mission of hope, empowerment, and service.

Kenneth is the Co-Founder of One Shoe SA|Africa, an innovative social initiative that addresses the often-overlooked needs of amputees by collecting and distributing single shoes to individuals who require only one shoe. What began as a simple act of compassion has evolved into a movement that has restored dignity, comfort, and confidence to thousands of beneficiaries across South Africa and neighbouring countries. His vision is to expand One Shoe SA|Africa throughout Africa, ensuring that no amputee is left behind and that inclusion becomes a lived reality across the continent.


Allyson Ogston, an amputee for over 23 years, founded One Shoe SA after creating an initiative to supply shoes and socks to amputees awaiting prosthetics. The Scottish Group became the first to donate out-of-season stock to One Shoe SA. Kenneth Mulaudzi, founder of Combating Disabilities, joined Allyson in making donations, and the two organizations merged, adopting the name One Shoe SA.

Siphiwe Rethenia Langa joined the organization as a board member after losing her hearing in both ears in 2010 due to a rapid ear infection caused by a neurological disorder. She has profound to severe hearing loss and relies on hearing aids to function in society. She has faced numerous challenges, including rejection from her community and workplaces. Her hearing is also affected by weather changes, adding to the difficulty.

Julia Mulaudzi, wife of Kenneth Mulaudzi, is a board member of the organization. After the traumatic incident, she adjusted her life to support her husband. With a business administration qualification, she contributes effectively as a board member. Having been impacted by living with disability, she actively advocates for the loved ones who are also indirectly affected.

Ruth Munaka Mutsila – Founder of Rutheology Conversations

Ruth Munaka Mutsila is an accredited Facilitator and Moderator, social advocate, and founder of Rutheology Conversations, an organisation dedicated to addressing Gender-Based Violence (GBV), trauma, wellness, and social transformation. Through her work, she has become a voice of hope, healing, and empowerment for individuals, communities, workplaces, and institutions.

One Shoe SA | ZIM

Fredrick Mafira is a Zimbabwean community leader, disability advocate, humanitarian, para-athletics coach, and property evaluator dedicated to transforming lives through faith, inclusion, sports, and community development.

His journey in disability advocacy was deeply inspired by his son, Pride Tadiwanyasha Mafira, who was born with fibular hemimelia, a rare congenital condition that resulted in the amputation of his right leg below the knee. 

One Shoe SA-ZM

Fredrick Mafira – Zimbabwe Coordinator
Fredrick Mafira is a passionate humanitarian, community evangelist, and disability advocate leading One Shoe SA-Zimbabwe. He is committed to restoring dignity and opportunity to people with disabilities who are often overlooked.

Fredrick coordinates local operations, ensuring shoes, mobility aids, and vital support reach those in need across Zimbabwe. With decades of grassroots experience in community work, disability sport, and inclusive outreach, he is a driving force behind One Shoe SA|Africa ’s impact on the ground.

Asa Gordon joined One Shoe SA|Africa after her husband, an amputee, received a shoe donation. She volunteered to manage operations in Cape Town and now oversees all services in the area. Her life changed on June 21, 2018, when her husband, of 27 years, was ambushed on the road. He lost control of his vehicle, hitting two cars and a concrete barrier. His vehicle was riddled with 18 bullet holes from front to back.

Nyeleti Shibambo, a social worker for a charity organization, joined One Shoe SA|Africa due to her passion for working with communities, particularly in informal settlements and townships. Her role includes offering counseling, family interventions, and referrals. She volunteers with One Shoe SA|Africa, believing in its potential to grow beyond South Africa. Inspired by Kenneth Mulaudzi's dedication to PWDs, she has had a fulfilling journey with the organization and hopes to contribute further to its growth.

One Shoe SA-ZIM

Pride Tadiwanashe Mafira
Born with Fibula Hemimelia, Pride Tadiwanashe Mafira underwent a below-knee amputation but never let it limit his potential.

As a decorated Para Athlete, Pride has won 9 Gold, 2 Bronze, and 1 Silver Medal, and was named Junior Sportsman of the Year with Disability in 2019.

He now serves as Vice Programs Director of Our Pride Amputee Helping Amputees, where he empowers fellow amputees and champions inclusivity in sports and community life.

Prisca Ndlovu, a professional social worker and highly motivated and compassionate individual with a strong desire to make a positive impact on the lives of individuals with disabilities.

Possessing a Diploma in Disability Studies from the Zimbabwe Open University, she has developed a comprehensive understanding of the challenges faced by individuals with disabilities and the strategies required to empower and support them. 

One Shoe SA|Africa Testimonies

 ONE SHOE SA | AFRICA

More Than Just a Shoe, It's a Step Toward Hope

Empowering Lives One Step at a Time

What began with a single pair of shoes has grown into a movement that has touched over 20,000 lives. Every step tells a story of restored dignity, renewed hope, courage and inclusion.

At One Shoe SA | Africa, we believe that every person deserves to be seen, valued and given an opportunity to live with dignity, regardless of their circumstances.

We do more than provide single shoes. We reach into forgotten corners of our communities, walking alongside people living with disabilities, amputees, spinal cord injuries, and those facing life's most difficult challenges.

From rural villages to urban communities, we have placed shoes in the hands of amputees, delivered mobility aids to those in need, and reminded countless individuals that their lives still have meaning.

We have stood beside children whose dreams were simply to attend school like everyone else. We have supported the elderly, homeless individuals, and wheelchair users who needed comfort, care and a reminder that they are not forgotten.

But our mission goes beyond physical disability. It reaches into the lives of people carrying invisible wounds.

We recognise the pain experienced by rape survivors, victims of gender-based violence (GBV), burn survivors, people who have survived suicide attempts, and individuals living with spinal cord injuries (SCI).

We understand that some wounds cannot be seen. Some battles are fought in silence. Some people wake up every day carrying memories, fear, grief, shame, emotional pain or uncertainty about their future.

To every rape survivor and every person affected by GBV: You are not defined by what someone did to you. You deserve safety, respect, healing and the freedom to reclaim your life. What happened was not your fault.

To every burn survivor: Your scars do not diminish your worth. Your journey may be difficult, but your life remains beautiful, valuable and full of possibilities.

To every person who has survived a suicide attempt: Your life matters. You deserve compassion, support and the opportunity to discover that healing and hope are still possible. You do not have to face difficult moments alone.

To every person living with a spinal cord injury: Your life has not ended because your body has changed. Your dreams, relationships, abilities, purpose and future still matter. You deserve accessibility, inclusion, love and the opportunity to live a fulfilling life.

At One Shoe SA | Africa, we believe that healing is not only about physical recovery. It is also about restoring confidence, rebuilding relationships, finding belonging and learning to embrace life again.

INTIMACY, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS AFTER TRAUMA AND LIFE-CHANGING EXPERIENCES

Intimacy is an important part of human connection. It is not limited to sexual relationships. It includes emotional closeness, trust, affection, companionship, communication, understanding and the feeling of being accepted.

After rape, GBV, burn injuries, suicide attempts or a spinal cord injury, intimacy and relationships may become complicated. Some people may struggle with trust, fear, body image, confidence, emotional closeness or concerns about how a partner will respond to their experiences.

These feelings are understandable. Healing takes time, and every person's journey is different.

Intimacy after rape and GBV

Survivors may experience difficulties with trust, emotional closeness, boundaries or feeling safe in relationships.

A healthy relationship must never involve pressure, threats, manipulation or the expectation that a survivor owes anyone physical affection or sexual intimacy.

Consent, safety, patience and respect are essential.

Survivors have the right to decide when, how and whether they want to pursue intimacy. They deserve partners who listen, respect boundaries and understand that healing cannot be rushed.

Intimacy after burn injuries

Burn survivors may experience changes in confidence, body image, physical comfort or concerns about how others perceive them.

A caring partner should understand that scars do not define attractiveness, worth or the ability to love and be loved.

Emotional connection, honest communication, reassurance and mutual respect can help rebuild confidence. Where physical discomfort or sensitivity is present, healthcare professionals can provide guidance on safe and comfortable ways to maintain closeness.

Intimacy after a suicide attempt

Surviving a difficult mental health crisis can affect relationships, confidence and emotional connection.

Some individuals may fear being judged, misunderstood or treated differently because of their past experiences.

They deserve relationships built on compassion rather than shame. Partners can offer support by listening without judgement, encouraging appropriate professional care and understanding that recovery is a personal journey.

A person is more than the hardest moment of their life.

Intimacy and relationships after spinal cord injury (SCI)

A spinal cord injury can bring significant changes to a person's body, independence, sensation, mobility and relationship experiences.

However, SCI does not mean the end of love, intimacy, companionship or meaningful relationships.

People living with SCI can experience emotional closeness, affection, romantic relationships and fulfilling intimate lives.

Depending on the level and completeness of the injury, some individuals may experience changes in sensation, sexual function, bladder or bowel management, body positioning, muscle control or other physical responses.

These changes are different for every person. They do not determine someone's ability to love, be loved or build a healthy relationship.

Open communication between partners is important. Couples may need time to understand each other's needs, discuss boundaries, explore comfortable forms of affection and adjust to changes in their relationship.

Healthcare professionals experienced in spinal cord injury, rehabilitation, sexual health or counselling can provide confidential guidance on physical concerns, sexual function, fertility, contraception and other questions.

Intimacy after SCI is not about returning to exactly how life was before the injury. It is about discovering what closeness, connection and fulfilment can look like now.

Intimacy after all the above-mentioned situations

Whether someone has experienced rape, GBV, burns, a suicide attempt or spinal cord injury, the foundation of a healthy intimate relationship remains the same:

- Consent: Every person has the right to choose what feels comfortable and safe.

- Communication: Honest conversations help partners understand each other's needs, fears and boundaries.

- Patience: Emotional and physical healing cannot be forced or rushed.

- Respect: A person's disability, scars, trauma or past experiences must never be used to shame or control them.

- Emotional safety: Love should never involve violence, coercion, humiliation or pressure.

- Professional support: Counsellors, psychologists, rehabilitation professionals and healthcare providers can help individuals and couples navigate difficult changes.

- Self-worth: Every person deserves love, dignity and meaningful connection, regardless of their past or physical condition.

For those who are single, healing does not require finding a partner. For those in relationships, intimacy does not have to follow anyone else's expectations.

There is no single definition of a fulfilling relationship. What matters is that it is safe, respectful, caring and freely chosen.

Your body may have changed. Your experiences may have changed. But your worth, your right to love and your right to be loved remain.

WE DID NOT DO THIS ALONE

Through the kindness of our partners, donors, volunteers and everyday people who believed in our mission, more than 20,000 lives have been touched.

With no steady funding and no large budget, we have built this movement through faith, resilience, compassion and the belief that no one should be left behind because of disability, trauma or hardship.

Every donation has helped create an opportunity. Every partnership has strengthened our reach. Every act of kindness has reminded someone that they are not forgotten.

Our journey is proof that even the smallest act of kindness can become part of something much greater.

OUR INVITATION TO YOU

Today, we invite you to become part of this movement.

Partner with us. Donate. Volunteer. Share our message. Help us reach communities where hope is needed most.

Together, we can support amputees, people living with disabilities, survivors of trauma, burn survivors, people affected by GBV, individuals living with SCI and vulnerable communities across Africa.

Let us continue creating a world where people are not defined by their injuries, disabilities, scars or painful experiences, but by their dignity, resilience, potential and humanity.

One Shoe SA | Africa is more than a shoe. | It is a reminder that someone cares. | It is a step toward inclusion. | It is a message of hope.

It is a commitment to walk alongside those who have been forgotten.

And it is a promise that no one should have to walk their journey alone.

Let us keep going, because there are still thousands of lives waiting to be reminded that hope is possible.

ONE SHOE SA | AFRICA

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